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Tip For Millennials To Fend Off Unfair Criticism.



The outpouring following the death of Maya Angelou was a testament to the choices she made in life. She chose to be generous with her wisdom and her dealings with the young.
Contrast it with a the attitude of many Boomers.  Millennials: we suck and we’re sorry provoked a smug reply from one Boomer. He’s part of the  ‘Oh, they just want to know how great they’re doing’ brigade, who control the workplace and who prefer to crush potential with their irritation.


I struggled for years with the ‘oh you think you’re so great’ attitude, so I know the effect. The Enneagram is a great way to protect yourself and figure out where the crap is coming from and how to deal with it.


We all deserve to know we great and build a life to reflect it. Take Jenji Kohan, for example.  She created the groundbreaking Orange Is the New Black. Her philosophy is: "if [there’s] fit, everything  just goes a lot easier, everything just clicks”.

When I finally got to work with only Millennials, boy did I discover the joy of fit ... and everything really did just click. We threw out the rules and recreated an organisation threaded with generosity and respect. I wish this for you.

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